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Alison's Journey Home: An Adoption Story - Part 4 11-23-200011:00 AM Yesterday was the best day yet with my little girl. The caretakers tell me she is abit spoiled and can get cranky when she's not happy (as I've noticed!). I think I discovered the source of her discontent. Hunger! I brought cheerios and some baby cookies for her, and she LOVED them. She was very happy munching away. I need to learn the Kazak word for "chew" as she just kept putting one cheerio after the other into her mouth until it was stuffed full! I wanted to give her a bottle, but brilliant newbie mom that I am, remembered the bottle but forgot the liners! Luckily a friend gave me an Avent sippy cup, which I remembered! She used it beautifully, and it really saved me. There's another couple here with me-- Carma & Michael Hodges from Utah-- adopting a two year old boy and almost three year old girl through the same agency. They let us give the kids lunch and they gobbled it all down. Alison ate pretty slowly, but very deliberately (I think her appetizers of cookies and cheerios filled her up a bit!). It was a three-course meal of noodle soup, kasha (a sort of cereal), a big hunk of bread, and compote (which is like a fruit tea that they all LOVED!) I got the feeling that they don't usually get that much food, but since we were there, they loaded them up Louis Vuitton! After lunch I had the happiest, funniest, cutest little girl ever. She wanted to play games, explore my face and mouth with her fingers, and walk around the room with me holding her hands up. I have a feeling she'll be running by the time we get home! She stands and walks now, but only holding on to someone's hands. It's 11:00 AM here on Thursday morning (Thanksgiving Day) and I'm being picked up at 1:00 PM to GO TO COURT! I'll try to post tonight about how it went, as tonight will be my last night alone. Since court is at 3:00 PM, the decision usually comes down too late to get the kids the same day. They also have a little ceremony at the orphanage with champagne and chocolates (for the workers), and Alison needs to be able to say goodbye to her caregivers. So, I'll get her tomorrow... forever! Though they are very poor and dont have much to work with, Ive found the orphanage to be very clean and the workers extremely caring towards the kids! The orphanage is seriously run-down and in need of a lot of repairs (don't even ask me about the bathroom....Im trying to find out if I can donate a new toilet) but it looks like they are doing some work. I know Focus on Children (my adoption agency) has given a lot of humanitarian aid and is helping them get the building in better shape. I gave them $200 yesterday for diesel fuel, and the Hodges bought them tables and chairs for the kids to sit at during mealtime. Carla Ondrasik (wife of Five for Fighting's brilliant John Ondrasik) collected donations before I left the states, and through her generosity I was able to bring over a huge duffel bag of things for the orphanage. They LOVED it! There's so much more to tell. Almaty is an interesting city, and some parts of Kazakhstan are quite beautiful! The ride to the orphanage is about 90 minutes each way, and we drive along a magnificent mountain range. On the other sideof the mountains is another county that was also part of the former Soviet Union,Uzbekistan. The mountains are snow covered, and yesterday I tried to shoot video in the car on the way out. I hope it shows just how beautiful it is... I want Alison to know that the country she was born in has many wonderful features. Unfortunately the economy forces many women to give up their children, as Alison's birth mother did. I found out she was left on a doorstep when she was approximately a month old. They estimated that she was born in early May 1999, so they named her Maigul (meaning May Flower). Since they don't know her exact birth date, I was asked what date I'd like on her birth certificate. I decided May 3, which was my mother's birthday. As for her name, I decided to name her Alison Paige (Alison, for my father Allan; Paige, for my mother Patricia).This is going on very long... and I have to go back to the apartment to get ready for court! Happy Thanksgiving! Since I have court today, this holiday will, for me, truly take on the meaning it's meant to have!11/23/00 EveningIt truly is Thanksgiving, and from now on this holiday will be the most special one for me. Today was my court date to officially adopt my daughter. The judge actually allowed us to videotape the hearing, so Alison will be able to see it when she's old enough to understand! The entire proceeding only took about 10 minutes. First, the judge asked me why I was there. I had to respond by saying I wanted to request that the court allow me to adopt the child known as Maigul. The prosecutor asked many questions: why did I want to adopt, why specifically from Kazakhstan, why this child, questions about my income, my housing situation, and many others that I can't even remember. It will be interesting to watch the video and experience it again. Then the orphanage director was asked some questions, mainly about Maigul's background and health history. When the director was through, a woman from the Education Department (who basically acts as the child's advocate in the court) was asked her recommendation. She said she thought I'd be a wonderful mother and that Maigul would have a great life with me. Then the prosecutor asked me more questions about how I would deal with any potential health issues that might arise with Alison (Maigul), and if I was aware!of her background and diagnoses. I was asked to make a final statement to the court. I'm not sure exactly what I said, but I did include something about today being the American holiday known as Thanksgiving, and being granted this adoption today would make this holiday take on a whole new meaning for me. I also promised I'd give her a wonderful life and love her forever! (It was during this little speech that I lost it... I was able to hold back the tears until that moment.) The prosecutor said that he approved the adoption, but would not grant a "court of immediate action". This means that we must follow Kazak law that states that the decree isn't official until 15 days have passed, unfortunately, delaying my departure a bit. The judge then declared that he would grant the adoption! Galiya, the most amazing woman that works for my agency, hugged me as did the orphanage director and the woman from the Education Department. I asked the judge if he'd take a picture with me. He reluctantly agreed... we were joined by Galiya, the prosecutor and the assistant prosecutor. The Hodges had their court date right after mine and were granted the adoption of the two children they came for post by haiyan902. It was a very happy day. We celebrated with a dinner at a Chinese restaurant (since Kazakhstan borders on China, I thought it would be good... and it was!) It was a long day, and we didn't get to go to the orphanage today.... but we will tomorrow! I'll be picked up at 11:00 AM to go to the orphanage to take Alison out of there for good. I'll have to bring clothes for her to wear, as she'll come to me with nothing. I will ask for something of hers from the orphanage as a keepsake, though I have no idea what they'll give me. I have a questionnaire that I gave to her caretakers to fill out asking everything from her eating habits and nap times to her likes and dislikes. Hopefully they'll give that to me tomorrow along with her complete medical file. Luckily I've found a pediatrician in LA who speaks (and reads) Russian, that will be able to understand her history. This will be my last night as a childless woman. Tomorrow I get my daughter! I guess I'd better try to get some good sleep tonight... I may not have a full night's sleep for some time to come Louis Vuitton handbags
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Start doing online business using B2B Portals in Six Steps I registered with a B2B site but whats next?This is a question many first time users of B2B marketplaces ask themselves. A few expect that the registration itself will bring them a number of new customers. In some cases this might by true! Especially, if you are a seller of some much coveted items. But for rest of us, things are a little trickier! A large B2B marketplace has a lot of suppliers of similar products, who are vying for the attention of potential customers. To establish your company as a favored one among them is not an easy task! However, a little planning and thorough follow up of some basic guidelines improve your chance of getting noticed by buyers significantly.Below, I outlined some of the basic steps that you should take once you seriously decide to market your products using B2B marketplaces.1 Write a nice profileWhen a prospective client sees your trade lead ad or your product on the marketplace and feels interested, the first thing he does is - checks your company profile out. Thats where the buyer gets his initial information about your company. If you have a virtually blank profile with a very little information on your company, doubtful that the potential client will even bother to make a request for quote. Thats why you should spend a little time on writing a nice company profile. Here are some aspects that you should emphasize on while writing your company profile.Start your profile with something noteworthy about your company. 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They prefer to get trade leads from the site and make contacts with buyers or sellers by fax, phone or just emails. Posting trade leads is a great marketing method to tap new territories. Dont be disappointed if you do not get immediate feedbacks. Repeat trade leads at least once in a month. Since normally a portal constantly acquires new members, in order to expose the leads to bigger audience, it is worthwhile to post trade leads frequently. <
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Mom's Weekend Dilemma - Time to Relax or Time Get Ahead by Kim DeYoung
We watch our children and our husbands do it, but for us as moms it's so hard to do "nothing". It's hard to let go of our to-do list and spend a weekend or even just a few hours really relaxing. You'd like to sit and read a novel, take a bubble bath or play an endless game of Monopoly with your 9-year old.

But... if you're like me there's always something you really SHOULD do. You're already mentally gearing up for next week and thinking of ways to get ahead-maybe it's catching up on laundry, getting a head start on your next newsletter or responding to last week's emails.

It's easy to give into what you "should" do but if you recognized the significant payoff that relaxing provides, perhaps you'd do it more often. The truth is, the problem-solving part of your brain functions best during unstructured time. So when you're engaged in "mindless" activities-taking a nature walk, listening to music, getting a pedicure - you'll often come upon solutions that your "busier" mind doesn't focus on. J.K. Rowling says the premise for the Harry Potter books popped into her mind as she was gazing out a train window. I know for myself, my best mom entrepreneur ideas have come to me during exercise or meditative time.

If improving your mental sharpness isn't motivating enough, carving out regular times to relax also provides health benefits. When you're constantly busy your body finds itself stuck in high gear which can lead to high blood pressure, heart disease and a suppressed immune system. Doesn't it always seem like you catch a cold after a particularly stressful week?

Another perk of ditching your to-do list, is how your family benefits. Studies show that children of parents who are constantly racing from one task to another end up being stressed themselves. Our children feel our energy - the positive and the negative. Allowing yourself time to relax helps your whole family relax and enjoy the weekend together.

When you stop and think about it, how often do you really get ahead on your week by cramming too much into your weekend?

Relaxing doesn't just happen. Like anything that you're committed to bringing into your life, you have to plan for it. For me, I have to set aside chunks of time to do nothing since my natural tendency is to perpetually stay busy.

This is especially true if you work from home. It's easy to work through your weekend without even realizing you haven't given yourself a breather. I have a friend who decided she wouldn't turn on her computer on Sunday. She knows if the computer is on she checks her emails and she doesn't want to spend Sunday thinking about everything she has to do on Monday post by haiyan902. (This is a tip I'm going to implement.)

Here are some ideas of activities that will relax you and renew your energy:

- Take a long bath. Try lighting some candles and dip into the tub. This is a great time for some quiet reflection.

- Go for a walk. Walking is rejuvenating physically, mentally, even spiritually.

- Drive without distractions. I love listening to informational CDs in my car. But sometimes if you're on a drive without your kids in the car, try turning off your phone or radio, and enjoy the silence.

- Meditate. This is something I'm doing daily, not just on the weekend. I've been participating in the 40 days and 40 nights program which encourages a morning and evening meditation. Give it a try, just find a few moments and a quiet space to breathe. Another choice are the Holosync audios.

- Treat yourself. Find a simple pleasure and indulge yourself. Get a pedicure or a massage or buy a new book and spend a couple of hours reading it at the book store.

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Your short-term marketing strategies will drive traffic to your web site in intervals. Each time you place an ad, your traffic will increase. After a few days, your traffic will drop off.2. Your long-term marketing strategies will drive a steady stream of traffic to your web site. Your traffic will continue to increase over time.3. Your ad must draw your potential customer’s attention and create curiosity. It must lead them to click through to your web site.4. Your web site will then take over and provide further information, while leading your potential customer to your order page.5. Your order page will be packed with all of the benefits your product has to offer and call for action.6. Your marketing plan will continue to be implemented by closing the sale with a thank you letter.7. 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A professional looking web site may take some time to create but it will add miles to your success graph. The site must also have relevant, customer-oriented and fresh content. This will drive ample traffic to your site. Remember that the freshness of the content needs to be retained on a continuous basis.Precise AudienceEven if all the above criteria are fulfilled, success cannot be guaranteed if you fail to drive the right audience to your web site. A million irrelevant hits are nothing compared to a few hundred precise audiences visiting your web site. To drive relevant traffic to your site you have the options of purchasing advertising, advertising on bulletin boards and registering with search engines. On a long-term basis, you can opt for constant customer interaction using tools like Ezines, Freebies and Fresh Content.EzineOne of the major ingredients of online success is an in-house magazine. 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Your child deserves the best nanny or babysitter that you can find. For your peace of mind, you also need to find somebody who is perfect for the job. You need to make sure that you are leaving your child to someone who can take care of him and keep him safe while you are away. This is why most parents opt to go for nanny agencies to ensure that they are screening candidates who have already been pre-screened for their credibility.

A nanny agency can bring you suitable matches according to your requirements. With its diverse database of potential candidates, you are bound to find somebody in its roster who will be able to live up to your expectations. But the thing is you need to pay for its services to take advantage of this benefit.

But you dont really have to spend a lot in order to find a good babysitter for your children. In fact, there are several venues where you can find one without paying an agency to match you up. Here are some ideas.

Recommendations from friends and colleagues

Before you go to an agency for your search, you want to ask for recommendations from family, friends, and colleagues who have children as well. Ask them to refer you to babysitters and nannies they have employed before to give you a good head start in your search. After all, who could better give you suitable candidates than those who have already employed babysitters and nannies before?

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Go to the local colleges and universities

If you live near local colleges or universities offering degrees in child development, healthcare, or primary education, you can take your search for a good babysitter or nanny to these places. You can contact the schools counselor or post an opening at the universitys job board to invite students to apply for your request post by haiyan902.

Going online for your nanny search

Another convenient way to search for a suitable babysitter is by going online. The Internet is home to a wealth of information on babysitters and nannies. There are a lot of online bulletin boards where you can post your request or even seek candidates who are ready to offer services. Try online classified listings such as Craigslist or you can also go to websites especially made for parents.

Babycenter , for instance, offers relevant information on how to find babysitters and nannies in your area. Participate in the local community forums in the site to get referrals from other parent users about finding nannies. You can also go directly to babysitter and nanny search sites on the Internet. Many of these sites would not charge you as much as a local nanny agency would and there are even those that offer free services. <
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Another opportunity to teach proper behavior arises when your child deliberately makes a mess for you to clean up. Most parents can tell the difference between a genuine accident and willful misbehavior. For the latter, parents can use the incident as an example of cause and effect. If your child deliberately colors on the walls after you have told him not to, having him help you clean up the mess can teach a valuable lesson about responsibility and consequences.

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